If there is a gay uniform the differences are in how each man coordinates the details: the brand and cut of the jeans the design of belts and boots the haircut the number and size of earrings.
Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated mistakes are tolerated communication is open and rules are flexible - the kind of atmosphere that is found in a nurturing family.
The average bright young man who is drafted hates the whole business because an army always tries to eliminate the individual differences in men.
I think we should all be tolerant of each other and embrace each others' strengths and differences and uniqueness and beauty.
We come in many different shapes and sizes and we need to support each other and our differences. Our beauty is in our differences.
Our second phase was to develop a school curriculum that teaches tolerance respect for differences conflict resolution anger management and other attributes of peace.
I think it goes back to my high school days. In computer class the first assignment was to write a program to print the first 100 Fibonacci numbers. Instead I wrote a program that would steal passwords of students. My teacher gave me an A.