Do you know the difference between a beautiful woman and a charming one? A beauty is a woman you notice a charmer is one who notices you.
There is no more lovely friendly and charming relationship communion or company than a good marriage.
Young women from a very young age are taught that life will be easier if you can just turn on the charming smile and say very little and be complacent and docile and sweet.
Just as the science and art of agriculture depend upon chemistry and botany so the art of education depends upon physiology and psychology.