Jealousy - that jumble of secret worship and ostensible aversion.
Humor is perhaps a sense of intellectual perspective: an awareness that some things are really important others not and that the two kinds are most oddly jumbled in everyday affairs.
God gave women intuition and femininity. Used properly the combination easily jumbles the brain of any man I've ever met.
The bottom line is that Wanda Sykes has the longest continuously documented family tree of any African-American we have ever researched.