I have great sympathy for people that are infertile but a life is not something you can give away.
Money is a tremendous advantage in just about everything but in terms of reproduction if you're a poor woman and you are infertile it's like too bad so sad. And if you are a wealthy woman you can kind of buy whatever you want.
In poetry you must love the words the ideas and the images and rhythms with all your capacity to love anything at all.