The answer for healthcare is market incentives not healthcare by a Godzilla-sized government bureaucracy.
I miss my Dad. My Dad loved cheesy monster movies so we'd have Godzilla movie marathons. Those are some of my favorite memories laughing at how the monster outfits were so bad like black garbage bags for heads.
My parents had a great marriage. Interestingly it made it harder for me in relationships because I knew what a good relationship looked like.