I hope every woman out there who wants to be a mother and is suffering with infertility will explore all the options and know that if you choose the science route it is okay.
The difficulty of IVF or of any fertility issues is the hope and the shattered hope the dream that it might happen this time and then it doesn't happen.
People with fertility problems are not alone. It is a very very common problem for couples today. I've seen statistics that are just staggering.
Any fool can tell the truth but it requires a man of some sense to know how to lie well.