I do support a sex-positive attitude for young people. Use condoms that's important. I love the idea that promiscuity can be healthy but it's got some dodgy crevasses. Ooh that's a bad reference! But it's got some dangerous cavities there. You know what I'm saying.
I never had to learn English French and German because I was brought up as all three languages. I had a private French teacher before I even went to school. That helped a lot.