Our marriage is strictly in name only. It has never been consummated.
Marriages are made in heaven and consummated on Earth.
I might get drunk one day and fall in love or fall over a hooker outside and I would have consummated a relationship that I couldn't necessarily believe in.
For me concrete poetry was a particular way of using language which came out of a particular feeling and I don't have control over whether this feeling is in me or not.