We should tell our kids to just have fun participate and not get bent on winning or losing. But every coach when they say that they say it tongue in cheek 'Don't worry about winning': If you win I'll get you ice cream but if you lose I'm going to pout in the car.
We should be recklessly abandoned to Jesus and just turn it over to Him. Through the support I think the sacrifices will be made and we'll all be cool with it.
