I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that's worth living one where you do what you want to do pursue your passions. That way if you meet someone they'll be joining a life that's already really good.
Women can go on marrying and pretending that their boyfriends and husbands...
Democracy functions best when we have an active citizenry.
The public history of modern art is the story of conventional people not knowing what they are dealing with.