If you want an interesting party sometime combine cocktails and a fresh box of crayons for everyone.
Be aware of wonder. Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw...
I like to go to parties where I know everyone. How are you going to have fun...
Being solitary is being alone well: being alone luxuriously immersed in doings of your own choice aware of the fullness of your won presence rather than of the absence of others. Because solitude is an achievement.