The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother the ecology or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
I'm very happy. I like my work and the various aspects of it - going around...
Democracy functions best when we have an active citizenry.
It's like a garden: Whatever you water the most will do the best. At some point you decide whether you'll water your career or your relationship more.