It is a wise father that knows his own child.
When a father gives to his son both laugh when a son gives to his father...
I would want my legacy to be that I was a great son father and friend.
What troubles me is the Internet and the electronic technology revolution. Shyness is fueled in part by so many people spending huge amounts of time alone isolated on e-mail in chat rooms which reduces their face-to-face contact with other people.