Older women are like aging strudels - the crust may not be so lovely but the filling has come at last into its own.
At the root of many a woman's failure to become a great cook lies her failure...
I don't think balance is something you get from someone else it's something...
All that I say is examine inquire. Look into the nature of things. Search out the grounds of your opinions the for and against. Know why you believe understand what you believe and possess a reason for the faith that is in you.