If you look for truth you may find comfort in the end if you look for comfort you will not get either comfort or truth only soft soap and wishful thinking to begin and in the end despair.
Telling us to obey instinct is like telling us to obey 'people.' People say...
Tell the truth work hard and come to dinner on time.
My great-grandfather was in the army in India and we have photographs of my family there in full Victorian dress. They're incredibly romantic.