You can't just trust to luck you have to really listen to what that character is telling you.
It is so important to get respect for what you do and at the same time give it.
The betrayal of trust carries a heavy taboo.
Everyone has an opinion of who you are and what your relationship is about things that you've done or didn't do in your relationship - and it's just all crap really. Things that are written about it are all crap.