The hedonistic lifestyle is difficult to achieve when you're still carrying your own gear. Trust me that you don't feel glamorous with a 60-pound amp in your arms it's a lot less sexy than toting a vodka gimlet and impossible to do in heels.
I'm pretty horrible at relationships and haven't been in many long-term ones....
The betrayal of trust carries a heavy taboo.
What we women need to do instead of worrying about what we don't have is just love what we do have.