Relax? How can anybody relax and play golf? You have to grip the club don't you?
Reverse every natural instinct and do the opposite of what you are inclined...
I don't pay much attention to sports.
I think we too often make choices based on the safety of cynicism and what we're lead to is a life not fully lived. Cynicism is fear and it's worse than fear - it's active disengagement.
