What I do deny is that you can build any enduring society without some such mystical ethos.
My own early experiences in war led me to suspect the value of discipline...
The whole system of society tells you what to do.
The fact of the matter is that when there are feelings involved and you like someone it doesn't matter if you're an actor a teacher a doctor a lawyer a receptionist - you can't really help it when you have feelings for someone.
