You have to let it all hang out let go of the ideas that were more comfortable and embrace some of the sadness in your life.
I was just learning to play guitar when Tracy Chapman came out. She wrote...
I had never felt so lonely and so sad in my entire life.
The words that a father speaks to his children in the privacy of home are not heard by the world but as in whispering galleries they are clearly heard at the end and by posterity.