I really have always wanted to be a parent and when I hit 36 and had just ended a relationship I remember thinking how much I still wanted it. But I thought I'd adopt.
If it's not working before you get married marriage isn't going to fix it.
I feel an intense intimacy with those who have this loathing interest in me....
The answer for healthcare is market incentives not healthcare by a Godzilla-sized government bureaucracy.