Having had that experience... I think what modern culture wants to see is the relationship with the woman. I don't think you can tell a story on film nowadays where the woman simply is there for the man when he decides to settle down.
Do you like my suit? I think this is an amazing suit don't you think?
I feel an intense intimacy with those who have this loathing interest in me....
It is not good to see people who have been pretending strength all their lives lose it even for a minute.