It seems I have a hard time being attracted to someone unless I respect what they do on some level. Otherwise I would feel disdain for them. Which is not always pleasant in a relationship. Sometimes it's fun though.
I have several dogs and several cats who aren't really mine. In fact they...
I feel an intense intimacy with those who have this loathing interest in me....
When you practice gratefulness there is a sense of respect toward others.