Sex is... perfectly natural. It's something that's pleasurable. It's enjoyable and it enhances a relationship. So why don't we learn as much as we can about it and become comfortable with ourselves as sexual human beings because we are all sexual?
It's sad that the most glorious of sexual experiences can make us feel guilty...
I feel an intense intimacy with those who have this loathing interest in me....
When we get to wishing a great deal for ourselves whatever we get soon turns into mere limitation and exclusion.