When one has love for God one doesn't feel any physical attraction to wife children relatives and friends. One retains only compassion for them.
Through selfless work love of God grows in the heart. Then through his grace...
I feel an intense intimacy with those who have this loathing interest in me....
I could party in a cardboard box with people who are funny and don't care. For me it's really about who I surround myself with so I just try to always be with hilarious people.