To say nothing especially when speaking is half the art of diplomacy.
There have been only 268 of the past 3 421 years free of war.
Wushu is a move in Chinese a physical move. An attack. Wushu is like an art.
My personal belief is that you carry your own water in a relationship. If you see a girl and you think she's hot that's a very human reaction but you don't go and tell your spouse that you know? So in one way it's how you behave.