I still think of that guy I was without a wife or kids and I still want to entertain that guy. The lonely guy the frustrated guy the guy with no money - this is the guy who needs to laugh.
Even back then I exuded self-confidence and that drives women crazy.
People look at me and they go 'You're white you're smart you must have...
An excuse becomes an obstacle in your journey to success when it is made in place of your best effort or when it is used as the object of the blame.