It's impossible to put yourself first when you're a mom.
Parenting is not for sissies. You have to sacrifice and grow up.
My mom is in the navy and my dad works for the army but I never called them...
My dad was a labourer and my mum had exactly the same job as Noel Gallagher's mum - she was a dinner lady at our local school. Everyone comes over from Ireland and they get the same jobs.