Death can't be so bad if mom went through it. It makes it easier for the child to follow.
There was certainly less profanity in the Godfather than in the Sopranos....
My mom is in the navy and my dad works for the army but I never called them...
I have to admit that when I watch a movie in which there is no moral context for the violence - I find that offensive. I think that's potentially damaging to society.