Mothers always find ways to fit in the work - but then when you're working you feel that you should be spending time with your children and then when you're with your children you're thinking about working.
I think growing up is difficult and it's a process that I'm always interested...
My mom is in the navy and my dad works for the army but I never called them...
Any change is resisted because bureaucrats have a vested interest in the chaos in which they exist.