In our minds love and lust are really separated. It's hard to find someone that can be kind and you can trust enough to leave your kids with and isn't afraid to throw her man up against the wall and lick him from head to toe.
There are older men with younger women but you don't see a lot of older women...
At the end of the day you know love does not happen between two perfect...
There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.
