Where love rules there is no will to power and where power predominates there love is lacking. The one is the shadow of the other.
One looks back with appreciation to the brilliant teachers but with...
At the end of the day you know love does not happen between two perfect...
The vast majority of large scale change efforts fail. Which means that the probability that you have actually experienced a failure and your people know that and are pessimistic therefore about trying something again is very high.