To have long term success as a coach or in any position of leadership you have to be obsessed in some way.
Being a part of success is more important than being personally indispensable.
When a man assumes leadership he forfeits the right to mercy.
Once you understand this way you will be able to make your room alive you will be able to design a house together with your family a garden for your children places where you can work beautiful terraces where you can sit and dream.