The surest route to breeding jealousy is to compare. Since jealousy comes from feeling less than another comparisons only fan the fires.
What we used to say was whoever had the bow tie got to lead the band. There...
At first I missed it but it was the amazing energy thing that happened during shows when a lot of people were like Yay Yay Yeah! I missed that for a while. But I don't miss the regular and the business side of that whole thing.
