You do the right thing even if it makes you feel bad. The purpose of life is not to be happy but to be worthy of happiness.
The hardest thing was learning to write. I was 13 and the only writing I had...
On a soap happiness never lasts for very long!
While I was doing stand-up I thought I knew for sure that success meant getting everyone to like me. So I became whoever I thought people wanted me to be. I'd say yes when I wanted to say no and I even wore a few dresses.