I have learned to seek my happiness by limiting my desires rather than in attempting to satisfy them.
As for charity it is a matter in which the immediate effect on the persons...
On a soap happiness never lasts for very long!
I know that. I'm having a ball. I'm not slap happy. I'm just filled up with joy and with peace and with all kinds of things that have eluded me for quite a few years. And they're back and they're thriving.