Well I'll put it this way: you can certainly say belief in God makes people behave worse. That can be proved beyond a doubt.
It's surprising to me how many of my friends send Christmas cards or holiday...
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
I would go to the deeps a hundred times to cheer a downcast spirit. It is good for me to have been afflicted that I might know how to speak a word in season to one that is weary.