Theist and atheist: the fight between them is as to whether God shall be called God or shall have some other name.
It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all.
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
Leadership is solving problems. The day soldiers stop bringing you their problems is the day you have stopped leading them. They have either lost confidence that you can help or concluded you do not care. Either case is a failure of leadership.