God is in all men but all men are not in God that is why we suffer.
Through selfless work love of God grows in the heart. Then through his grace...
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
About the time I turned 50 I experienced the profound biological change that often accompanies women at that age. Also I put two kids in college and lost both of my parents so I'm no longer somebody's daughter.