If God treats you well by teaching you a disastrous lesson you never forget it.
You don't have to turn on the TV set. You don't have to work on the Internet....
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
I think every chef not just in America but across the world has a double-edged sword - two jackets one that's driven a self-confessed perfectionist thoroughbred hate incompetence and switch off the stove take off the jacket and become a family man.