God is a comedian playing to an audience too afraid to laugh.
Let us work without theorizing tis the only way to make life endurable.
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat or cure or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?
