Can a mortal ask questions which God finds unanswerable? Quite easily I should think. All nonsense questions are unanswerable.
Telling us to obey instinct is like telling us to obey 'people.' People say...
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
If marriage really is a sacred institution then why is the government controlling it especially in a nation that affirms separation of church and state?