Can a mortal ask questions which God finds unanswerable? Quite easily I should think. All nonsense questions are unanswerable.
Telling us to obey instinct is like telling us to obey 'people.' People say...
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
You know there's nothing like seeing the smile on my kids' faces. Laughing together. Playing. It's the best.