I only answer to two people myself and God.
Husbands are like fires - they go out when they're left unattended.
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
There's so much fear involved in trying to do something you don't know how to do that drugs and alcohol can become a big part of your life if you have an addictive personality or are very unsure which most songwriters are.