God loves to help him who strives to help himself.
What is there more kindly than the feeling between host and guest?
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
My mom would give me a piece to play but I wouldn't do any theory because when it came time to do it I would sneak back upstairs and watch TV. So I had these kind of nonchalant lessons for years then it just started soaking in.