Each one prays to God according to his own light.
It is unwise to be too sure of one's own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded...
Discernment is God's call to intercession never to faultfinding.
I believe life is a series of near misses. A lot of what we ascribe to luck is not luck at all. It's seizing the day and accepting responsibility for your future. It's seeing what other people don't see And pursuing that vision.