You can always tell a real friend: when you've made a fool of yourself he doesn't feel you've done a permanent job.
It's better to have loved and lost than to have to do forty pounds of laundry...
I loved my 17 years with R.E.M. but I'm ready to reflect assess and move on...
For me working on the marriage and not making the easy choice of cheating was something that I could not do.
