I don't care how smart a kid you are. The only way you learn what's not right is from experience.
I'd kiss a frog even if there was no promise of a Prince Charming popping out...
It evolved from my experience in the fifties growing up during the McCarthy...
Of course I do have a slight advantage over the rest of you. It helps in a pinch to be able to remind your bride that you gave up a throne for her.
