The law was made for one thing alone for the exploitation of those who don't understand it or are prevented by naked misery from obeying it.
Mixing one's wines may be a mistake but old and new wisdom mix admirably.
But the wicked passions of men's hearts alone seem strong enough to leave...
You've just got to have a sense of respect for the person you have children with. Anger doesn't help anybody. Ultimately you have to say forgiveness is important and honoring what you had together is important. But it's easy to say and harder to do.