You show your vulnerability through relationships and those feelings are your soft spot. You need to have a soft spot.
I desperately want a dog but I've been told I travel too much and I'm not...
The Peking man was a thinking being standing erect dating to the beginning...
Even modern English people are imperious superior ridden by class. All of the hypocrisy and the difficulties that are endemic in being British also make it an incredibly fertile place culturally. A brilliant place to live. Sad but true.