You show your vulnerability through relationships and those feelings are your soft spot. You need to have a soft spot.
I desperately want a dog but I've been told I travel too much and I'm not...
The Peking man was a thinking being standing erect dating to the beginning...
Punishment may make us obey the orders we are given but at best it will only teach an obedience to authority not a self-control which enhances our self-respect.