I do not believe that sheer suffering teaches. If suffering alone taught all the world would be wise since everyone suffers. To suffering must be added mourning understanding patience love openness and the willingness to remain vulnerable.
When the wedding march sounds the resolute approach the clock no longer...
But the wicked passions of men's hearts alone seem strong enough to leave...
There's something about death that is comforting. The thought that you could die tomorrow frees you to appreciate your life now.